Hi, Michelle -
This is a common concern
for first-time moms--regardless of how old they are! And it is related
to the general concern of "am I REALLY ready to be a mom?" That hits
most moms, too, regardless of age.
Being nineteen is plenty old enough for your body to function as it is
designed to carry and then nourish your baby at the breast. Even
younger teen moms can successfully breastfeed, so the issue really
isn't whether or not you are physically capable of breastfeeding, it
has more to do with whether you want to breastfeed.
I would encourage you to learn as much as you can about breastfeeding
during your pregnancy. Read books such as The
Womanly Art of Breastfeeding by La Leche League International, and
check out their web site for a wealth of information on breastfeeding.
Find an LLL group near you and attend a few meetings to watch other
moms breastfeed their babies and to meet some other moms you can turn
to when you need an extra boost.
When your baby arrives, try putting him (or her) to your breast soon
after delivery and see how it goes. Chances are, he'll take right to it
and you may find yourself in awe of what your body will do for you! If
you need help, ask for it. Many hospitals have International Board
Certified Lactation Consultants (IBCLCs) on staff to help new moms. See
how it goes.
Even one time at the breast does wonderful things for your baby. Your
first milk is the perfect first food, and also gives him a dose of
immunity and actually coats his intestines to seal them from germs that
could make him sick.
It is possible to combine the breast and the bottle, although it is
best to wait until breastfeeding is well established (3-4 weeks
minimum) to introduce the bottle. Bottle feeding is very different from
breastfeeding and it helps to let your baby learn one skill at a time.
It also helps to wait that long to make sure your supply is well
established as well.
You can always switch from breastfeeding to bottle feeding, but it is
very difficult to switch in the other direction. The benefits of
breastfeeding -- for both you and your baby -- are worth at least
giving it a try.
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