That must have been a
frightening experience for you with your first child. At this point, it
would be difficult indeed to assess what really caused the problems with
that first baby. Such things as a complicated delivery, complete with a lot
of medication and other medical interventions, may have affected your
baby's ability to nurse as often and as effectively as is
needed.
Rarely, a woman will not
be able to produce enough milk to sustain her baby. Some studies quote
a figure as high as 5%, but those of us "in the trenches" find that
number to be high and largely unsubstantiated.
Often, the mother who does fall in that tiny percentage will notice no
change in breast size during pregnancy. Some mothers who have extremely
tubular-shaped breasts have difficulties.
It is hard to say what will happen with your next child. I would
encourage you to read as much about breastfeeding--how it is supposed
to work--as you can. La Leche League International's Womanly Art of
Breastfeeding would be an excellent resource for you. If there are LLL
meetings in your community, attend as many meetings as you can before
your child is born. There is nothing like learning breastfeeding from
another mother who's "been there, done that." You can learn practical
tips on how often babies nurse, to how to tell if the nursing is going
well, to how to plan for a delivery that will help get breastfeeding
off to as good a start as possible--and tips for how to help if that
delivery doesn't go as you plan.
Talk to your health care provider about your experiences in the past
and your desire to breastfeed your next child. For your own peace of
mind, I would encourage you to make sure that breastfeeding is
evaluated before you leave the hospital--preferably by a board
certified lactation consultant (with IBCLC after her name). Ask your
pediatrician about scheduling a visit within a week after delivery.
Realize that the new baby is not the old baby--he will not know of any
problems that happened before! And your body is not the same body that
delivered that first child, either.
The more you know about how breastfeeding is supposed to work, the
quicker you will be able to identify any problems that are going on.
The problem that is identified early is more likely to be solvable.
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