Warning: session_start() [function.session-start]: Cannot send session cookie - headers already sent by (output started at /usr/www/users/iparent2/pregnant/htdocs/experts/lc-whenusebottle.htm:2) in /usr/www/users/iparent2/includes/htdocs/layout/header_article.inc.php on line 2

Warning: session_start() [function.session-start]: Cannot send session cache limiter - headers already sent (output started at /usr/www/users/iparent2/pregnant/htdocs/experts/lc-whenusebottle.htm:2) in /usr/www/users/iparent2/includes/htdocs/layout/header_article.inc.php on line 2
- expert advice,parenting advice,parenting tips - Pregnancy Today

728x90
my iParenting
quick clicks
pregnancy today articles
pregnancy today q&a
message boards
research baby names
prepare a birth plan
content channels
ip channel rss feeds
read birth stories
read parenting stories
recommended books
e-newsletters
safety recalls
ip diaries
ip store
mom of the month
dad of the month
editor's letter
letters to the editor
e-newsletters
Sign up to receive our free weekly e-newsletters

new terms of use
new privacy policy
award-winning products
The iParenting Media Awards program helps parents find the best products for their families.

Pregnancy Today's Advisory Panel Answers:
When should I teach my baby to use a bottle?

by Melissa Clark Vickers
      MEd, IBCLC
Lactation Consultant
Melissa Clark Vickers, MEd, IBCLC

Question

I am wondering how to start bottle feeding and which type of bottle to use when I am at work. Could you recommend when I should teach my baby to use a bottle?
Using a bottle is a totally new skill for a baby, and requires learning how to coordinate breathing and swallowing in different ways than breastfeeding requires. For this reason, it is a good idea to wait at least a month or so before introducing the bottle so your baby has time to get good at breastfeeding first. And usually, a week or two before you head back to work gives your baby time to learn the new skill without sacrificing breastfeeding in the process.

You'll hear a lot of folks say "when he gets hungry enough, he'll eat," meaning that a hungry breastfed baby will eventually drink from a bottle when he gets desperate enough. I prefer a "kindler, gentler" approach that starts by introducing the bottle when your baby is NOT hungry. This way, he can just play with it, and will eventually discover something familiar inside. It often works better to have someone other than you give the first bottle--your baby is smart enough to know where the real stuff is supposed to come from!

Experiment with different bottle nipples. Some babies do better with the orthodontic nipples (the weirdly shaped ones); others with the more typical design. Look for a nipple with smaller and fewer holes so that he has to work a bit to get the milk out.

Some babies will do best distracted by the TVor a view outside a window. Some like to be held and danced around the room. Some like the "typical" nursing position.

There's no ONE way to bottle feed a breastfed baby, which is another reason to allow a week or two before you go back to work.

For more information on working and breastfeeding, check out Nursing Mother, Working Mother, a new book by Gale Pryor.

This Week's Expert Q & A

Kathy Loebel, certified nurse-midwife, answers: “How can I avoid an episiotomy or tearing?"

Read more in the Health Q&A Library
and in the Lifestyle answers forum
Ask your own question
or come meet our Health Expert Panelists!

Have a question for one of our experts?
Ask it at the Q & A desk!